3 Reason Why Peter Thomas and Cynthia Bailey May Divorce
3 Reason Why Peter Thomas and Cynthia Bailey May Divorce

If you’ve been watching this season of “Real Housewives of Atlanta, tadalafil ” you’re fully aware of the growing tension between model Cynthia Bailey and her husband Peter Thomas. After overcoming Cynthia’s medical problem that nearly led Peter to have an affair, the couple is facing yet another issue — Cynthia’s sister, Malorie, is moving into their home. The problem? Peter and Malorie have a rocky past and Cynthia did not allow Peter to have any say-so in the decision to allow her sibling to crash in their home.

Peter was noticeably livid and further expressed his frustrations when he and his wife sat down to discuss her decision. Peter, who is known for having a razor-sharp tongue, told his wife: “We can’t continue like this. Somebody needs an escape route.”

While I hope the couple will make an effort to save their marriage, below are three reasons why I believe this relationship will end this year:

1. Being the breadwinner, Cynthia appears to have lost respect for Peter. Prior to marrying in 2011, the couple argued over botched business plans that left Peter at a financial disadvantage. Today the couple is living primarily, if not solely, off of Cynthia’s modeling agency business. While being in a marriage that is financially striving off of the success of the wife is not uncommon in the 21st Century, revoking a husband’s right to have a voice is… This is especially true regarding matters that will affect both partners in the relationship. In this case, the surprise of having Cynthia’s sister living in the house with the couple, who is trying to rebuild their already-broken relationship, emasculates Peter and makes him appear to be more of Cynthia’s sidekick as opposed to her partner. Although she may be frustrated by her husband’s inability to financially contribute to the household, she should still respect him as an equal partner just as men who are the breadwinners in their marriage should treat their wives as equals.

2. The couple lacks a consistent s?x life.  Although her husband just publicly admitted that he considered planning a trip with friends to carry out an affair, Cynthia still appears to be unfazed by her husband’s need for intimacy. When Peter told his wife that he couldn’t remember “the last time we were happy and touching each other,” Cynthia scoffed at him, pulling her rank as the breadwinner to justify not having as much of an interest in s?x as he does. “I don’t really have time to think about s?x all day. I have to work to be able to afford the bed that we sleep in so we can have s?x,” she said. If Peter doesn’t make an effort to bring more money into the home to release stress off of his hardworking wife so that she can get in the mood for intimacy, the relationship will fail. If Cynthia does not find the energy in her body to make love to her husband and help him rebuild whatever confidence he has left, the relationship will fail.

3. Peter and Cynthia appear to be very strong-willed. When both persons are too busy criticizing the other person’s shortcomings — without taking a look at their own shortcomings — trying to force the relationship to last is as challenging as trying to make two positive magnets attract… It won’t happen! At some point, both of them will have to come to each other and admit their own shortcomings and how they plan to improve if they want to make the relationship work. If Cynthia is still upset about things that happened in the past, she has to be honest with herself and decide on whether or not she’s ready to put those things behind her to save the relationship. If Peter is resenting his wife for the lack of s?x they’re having, he should ask her what she needs from him to make the situation better for his wife, instead of yelling and cursing at her whenever he doesn’t understand her point-of-view.

Gary
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